Monthly Archives: March 2011

a road with no turns..

“We all may be on a road that has no turns”


You marry at the level of your self esteem

I just heard a statement…

“You marry at the level of your self-esteem”.

I find this statement to not be true at all.

I was 25 with three young children when I first got married. My esteem was a bit low but not in the pits.

I meet a guy that ask me for my hand, he was very rich.

So with the statement “you marry at the level of your self-esteem”…. I don’t agree with it.

Since my esteem was slightly low at that age you would think that I would marry a low-life but I didn’t.

The second marriage,  

I was on top of the world. I met this person that I thought was right for me, but once we were married I found out that his self-esteem was very low.

I stayed in for about 7 years and then I let go.

With my mindset, I don’t believe that my esteem could ever be low, but if it was I’d never show it in public. Then again I believe that it has nothing to do with esteem when it comes to me….

I probably was just having a bad day.

what’s the reason?

I believe that certain things happen for a reason.

Why I say that?

because that certain thing just happened to me.

What you need to do is back off and give it a rest. Maybe it just was not meant to be.


What will you be doing this friday march, 25th.

Around 6pm, I plan on going to the eastside golf training centre to hit a few baskets of golf balls.

From there I’d like to go see Limitless and after that Applebee’s to watch the OSU buckeyes play Kentucky.

have a good friday wordpress.

You know what they say about opinions….they’re like assholes, everybody has one

Last night I stepped out to have a cocktail. While in conversation with someone they said that it was St. Patrick Day.

As a matter of fact no one in there had on green. I don’t believe that it even mattered to anyone because they were there because it was ladies nite at the lobby.

Now on the other hand, I went to another joint and it was full of black Irish people with 0% irish in their blood. They were laid out from head to toe. One chick even told this guy that she was going to pinch him because he did not have on green. He said “you better go on girl, this ain’t elementary school (yes, I said “ain’t”)

My Opinion: If you want to go out and drink, go out and drink. Don’t use st.patrick day as a reason, that’s what alcoholics do.

How many Irish americans put on black, red and green during black history month or black, red, green and yellow during Kwanza? (none)


There are some things that you do and some things that you don’t do and jumping around with a bunch of green on and you’re black don’t make a lot of sense to me.

The second joint that I went into as I stated above, klub 57.. (they even spelled club with a k) the people who were there yesterday obviously have no idea who they are.

If you are reading this please don’t get me wrong I have nothing against irish americans.

I just have a problem with those that have the same heritage that I have getting suited up for March 17th.

This day has nothing to do with anyone that share the same heritage that I have.

Views and opinions are strictly my own.

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say a little prayer

All the footage that they are showing on television on Japan, it’s surreal.

This quake was a 9.2 I believe….

When the earth shifts, the ocean comes in.

That = ” DISASTER”.

It happens every time.

it’s time to move on…

I recently reside in Ohio. Yes, I have been here all of my life. The fact that things are slowing down here and the kids are all grown, I have decided to do a little homework on-line seeking employment and a place to reside in Florida.

Why this state? I love Florida. I have a job that I can transfer my talent and skills there.

I love the sun and the water. And then there is the fact that I can get to my favorite part of the world….

“The Caribbean”. (the photo below is in Negril, Jamaica)

The place where I would really like to live is in St. Thomas. I vowel to be there within the next 2 years.

spring forward

Time has sprung forward and it appears that the media is making a big deal out of it. Of course they are making it seem like everyone is having a hard time with it, the only persons that are having a hard time coping is the media.

I have no problem with it, never have and never will. I am a night owl so it doesn’t effect me much.

 ” Why do people complain about everything? 



I released some pressure that I needed to release before it exploded.

Have you ever seen the top of a pressure cooker when it’s real hot and steaming? That little gadget at the top of a ole skool cooker is rattling because all of the pressure that is inside….

That’s been me! that’s how I have been feeling about this relationship.

So, I released and I let go!!

I’m feeling relaxed for now.

(changing the subject for a moment…)

Has anyone noticed that it is March already. A third of the year has already been used up. Have you conquered any of your resolutions?, or acheived any goals?

You better hurry up, this year will be over soon. Put a move on it!!

And what about all of these disasters happening? Every since hurricane katrina hit, it’s been one after the other. Maybe it’ll stop for a while after Japan.

(I believe I’m thinking to much)


A feeling has just came over me.

I have this feeling as if I’m in limbo.

Definition of LIMBO
These are from the webster dictionary. I’ll let you figure out
which one I fall under.
often capitalized : an abode of souls that are according to Roman Catholic theology barred from heaven because of not having received Christian baptism
a : a place or state of restraint or confinement
b : a place or state of neglect or oblivion <proposals kept in limbo>
c : an intermediate or transitional place or state
d : a state of uncertainty


Being in limbo is not a good thing. but I only feel this way whenever I am at home.