no mistletoe this year.

while everyone else is excited about christmas 

and putting up decorations, I am not. I just happen to be in that boat where I made a request for a divorce

 so christmas won’t be the same this year. There will be no exchanges.

Now, I will still go shopping for my grandkids.

Their gifts will be wrapped but they won’t be

 underneath the tree because I am not putting one up.

I don’t think that it will matter to them anyway all they

want are the gifts and the video games because they don’t

play with toys anymore. I thank the mom and dad for that.

They tend to be smarter than most kids that I know therefore

toys bore them.

I’m not really sure if they believe in christmas because of the

parents.

All they pay attention to is the time of the year and

recognize that when the christmas lights are up… it’s gift time.

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For anyone that is in the same boat that I am in, hang in there

it’s going to get better if you don’t drag it out.

 And never think that you can’t make it without them

 because you can.

I was top-notch when I met him and will be top-notch after the

divorce.

If you don’t fit in that top-notch category, then you still can do it

without that person.

TRUST AND BELIEVE BECAUSE EVERYTHING IS POSSIBLE!!

lights out..

it’s getting late WordPress. it’s slightly past my bedtime I do have a lot to do in the morning. I have to shower and get pretty for bed even if no one sees me.

It’s time to turn the heat down, get under the covers and turn off the lights. The candle is already lit.

Good night all,

and don’t let the bedbugs bite. I pray that you don’t have any.

What’s the best way to cure a cold?

This post is based on a suggestion from WordPress.

My response to the above question is…. You can’t cure a cold. duhhhh!   And if you have a longer paragraph than this one then you made something up.

There is no cure.

In walks December.

we have just entered into the month of december.  This means the end of the year.  Time is moving by so fast that I now remember from december to december.  The summer is no longer the focus of the year. For me, December is the focus.

she walks in with her cool breeze and fresh air.

Shes bring with her the rain and the snow. (like a quiet storm)

And sometimes….Hopelessness!

This is the month of…..”Prepare and Beware”.

I shouldn’t have to explain that one to you because it’s self-explanatory.

This is also my birth month. Oh happy, happy joy!!

December is….. Religion to the first, second and third degree.

sharing and giving,

ice and sleet,

and sometimes kindness.

sadness and dispar.

overall,

She brings to you…. LIFE!!