I just heard a statement…
“You marry at the level of your self-esteem”.
I find this statement to not be true at all.
I was 25 with three young children when I first got married. My esteem was a bit low but not in the pits.
I meet a guy that ask me for my hand, he was very rich.
So with the statement “you marry at the level of your self-esteem”…. I don’t agree with it.
Since my esteem was slightly low at that age you would think that I would marry a low-life but I didn’t.
The second marriage,
I was on top of the world. I met this person that I thought was right for me, but once we were married I found out that his self-esteem was very low.
I stayed in for about 7 years and then I let go.
With my mindset, I don’t believe that my esteem could ever be low, but if it was I’d never show it in public. Then again I believe that it has nothing to do with esteem when it comes to me….
I probably was just having a bad day.